Saturday, May 8, 2010

It's lovely to be loved

My husband- I feel he never gets enough credit for all he does. It is the night before Mother's Day and he has given me so much love and shown so much appreciation and over the last 35 yrs, his love has not diminished.
He respects me, he thinks I'm still the best ( for him, I'm sure), he give me my space ( it took awhile to get him out of the library and into an off site office) and he is the easiest person to live with- he eats everything I make! Finally, two weeks ago he made one tiny comment about our dinner -and I'm glad he cared ( maybe I've pressured him into thinking he doesn't care what he eats!)
He always seems to have an extra bit of cash in his wallet and he always makes sure I have something in my wallet when I go out with friends. He doesn't complain that I can't fit, no, that I can't look as good as I used to in my bikini, he doesn't side with me when I might be wrong, instead he hugs me so I don't cry too much.
We dropped our son off at O'Hare and while I cried all the way home, he remained silent and just let me tuck his hand under my neck.
He remembers everything I can't remember. If I want to eat out ( which I never do anymore) that is fine with him. But lately, he is the one who says, I think we should go eat out. And I always say, 'no'.
He knows I struggle with my daily substitute teaching job and he leaves me notes every morning. He knows I love making videos and he lets me do it- but I do get annoyed when he would come home and say 'on the computer again'. One who does not make videos has no idea the minute details one takes to make a video perfect.

Our Korean Spice bush is on it's last leg. After helping me vacuum, and clean bathroom toilets and clean vents today, he picked the last of the blooming blossoms on our Korean Spice bush.

My husband is a gem. I don't think he'll visit my blog anytime soon- so this is just to let all you who stop by to know, I have a wonderful husband who has made me a very proud wife and Mother.
Thank you to you my wonderful husband, my M!

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